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UW services open to victims of abuse


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Rebecca Griego’s death earlier this month has prompted new discussion about domestic and workplace violence on campus.

Although the finality to Griego’s story is not common, the events leading up to that April morning were not unique to her own experience, but are shared by most victims of domestic violence.

According to experts, Greigo took all the right steps — from telling friends about her situation to seeking a protection order and notifying the UW Police Department.

She came to us on March 16,” UWPD Chief Vicky Stormo said. “She gave us the protection order at that time. We were attempting to locate [her ex-boyfriend], and actually the Seattle Police Department was also attempting to locate him to serve was very elusive.”

Most importantly, the victim must seek help and intervention, Stormo said. This can be accomplished through filing a police report with the UWPD, or by contacting one of the many counseling resources available to student, faculty and staff.

UW community members have a wide variety of options at their disposal if they believe that they are a victim of domestic violence, said Sara Dale, clinical psychologist and outreach coordinator for the UW Counseling Center. Staff and faculty can discuss their situation confidentially with a Human Resources Consultant, and while students can contact the Sexual Assault and Relationship Violence and Information Service or the UW Counseling Center for advice about assessing the level of potential danger in their relationships.

These departments can also help student, faculty and staff in obtaining medical and legal aid.

Students are never coerced into filing a police report or seeking a protective order, but are supported in doing so if they would like to,” Dale said.

Dale also said that the term “domestic violence” has been replaced on most university campuses with “relationship violence.” The new term provides a broader definition than the more restrictive term “domestic violence.”

Relationship violence occurs along a continuum, ranging from verbal and emotional abuse, [such as] manipulation, making insulting comments, embarrassing or shaming one’s partner in public, to severe, on-going physical abuse [such as] hitting, slapping, confining one’s partner to the home, forced sexual activity and threatening with weapons,” Dale said.

The psychologist also pointed to several key warning signs of relationship violence, ranging from forced isolation from friends and family to physical violence.

Often, when I talk with survivors of relationship violence, they report a history that includes jealous and possessive behavior on the part of their partner, escalating over time to include more threatening forms of control,” she said.

Griego’s killing has prompted the University and the UWPD to reassess how reports of relationship violence are handled.

We’ve already looked at our process of what we do with protection orders when they come to our attention,” Stormo said. “We’ve already looked at that process and cleaned it up a bit.”

A special advisory board will convene within the next few weeks to explore how the UW can improve its current handling of relationship violence reports. The board will be staffed by members of the UW faculty, the ASUW and the administration, including Stormo, Vice Provost of Student Life Eric Godfrey and Griego’s sister Rachel.

The main points of interest for the board include developing a better understanding of what current resources and support mechanisms are in place for dealing with workplace and relationship violence, establishing a process that allows for automatic and immediate response to threats and recommending an improved communication plan that will include annual violence prevention information and training.

Reach reporter Shaun Moore at news@thedaily.washington.edu.


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#1 Maryann Kemery
(Camden, NJ | Unverified Name)

on April 25, 2007 at 5:08 p.m.
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i was married for 19 years ,to a very emotionaly abusive man. to explain what I lived was like living in a concentration camp with a interrageater. insults and threats of violence degrading My charicter behind My back to even strangers ,Telling Me ,Mary You dont know how crazy I am. and on a on. But in front of people He was mr nice guy. So after three doctors one My family doctor and another my gastroengest and the other my neuroligest told Me that My emotional and physcisal condition was so bad ,and that I lost 50 lbs in less then 3 months ,That if I didnt get away from him I wont be around long. I live in an area were I cant get out and I dont drive and have a son who has chrones .I suffer from severe pannick attacks and mirganes and ibs and acid reflux . I was so affriaid i knew he had to go but I knew I couldnt work to support My self. And every morning I woke up wishing I was dead. But I have a sick Son that needs Me, .I,m a christian and I prayed and did nothing but cry sometimes till My face looked black and blue. So in dec enought was enought I couldnt take any more My 18 year old Dauther took Me to domestic violence and then they sent Me to a lawyer and I got him out. We went throught threw winter with out heat and I struggled to pay the rent . I called every agentcie and got help for some of the things I need and I am still very sick and I,m trying to get on disabilty. But with all of that I thank GOD that that tyrant i lived with for so long is gone. I,m trying to get My selfesteem back But I dont feel hopeless any more. .The sad part of all this is some people felt sorry for him. I,m waiting to hear from My lawyer on the disabilty. NO one could ever understand the suffering of living with abuse and feeling So hopeless and helpless.And most friends and family stay away . Thank GOD for Women against abuse.


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